Raising children will always be a full time job. No one can successfully perform 2 full-time jobs at the same time. In trying to balance, no matter how hard one tries, it is hard. For if we want to have a balance and enjoy work, marriage, our time, and children, then full-time motherhood is the way to achieve it. Full time motherhood do away with the stress such as work pressure, traffic and lack of time. The beauty of full time motherhood, is that it is flexible, there is no rush, no boss to answer to , no deadlines, and all that is worth giving up a paycheck.One is not more fulfilled as a result of working, The only way that a working mother has time is to quit her job, and get in the business of raising our children.
Now on the question of guilt one feels when she has to leave my child in someone care. If she were a full time mom, having a mother in law look after while one go for a break, it is okay because the child has the undivided attention most of the time. But if you leave your child all day, every day while someone did the work of the motherhood, one can feel guilty
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